The MINDFUCKERY Podcast
I’m your host Elizabeth Author of Finding Lily and The A to Z of Emotional Abuse. I am here to remind you that Love should be UNCONDITIONAL Divorcing Emotionally LIFE CHANGING and that you have a DUTY OF CARE for yourself it it should be your MANTRA! Each week I will discuss some of the terms you may hear along this journey and I will help you INNER-STAND and process what is happening INSIDE YOU! I will help you DISCOVER THE BEST TOOLS | PUT IN PLACE THE BEST RITUALS as you start to take back the control over your own life and learn the tools to heal on a deeper level becoming THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
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Episodes
Tuesday May 21, 2024
Tuesday May 21, 2024
Healing from these relationships is one of the most rewarding things you can do!
No one will ever get the pain and confusion you are left with when the fairytale romance is over - that is what they see - they don't see the chaos that went on behind closed doors!
The pain ingrained by the cycle of abuse
Why they can walk away and nothing
Narcissists are parasites, using one host to get to the next
ROI - Know your value the narcissist does - https://youtu.be/GBo7LIcInk0
#dirtyjohn #johnmehan #netflix
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday May 14, 2024
Tuesday May 14, 2024
This week I am sharing a podcast I was on with John Kenny the relationship guy, following our 2nd interview Divorce, The Narcissist and Healing from Emotional abuser - listen here John invited me back for him to experience a healing session - this is the result - I am sharing to help you inner stand and process you really can heal from this abuse and you can heal deep wounds and the BIGGEST AND I don't use a process that will re- trigger you!
#2 Divorce, The Narcissist and Healing from emotional abuser - https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-p3pez-153c4ef
#1 Divorce and the Narcissist | The Relationship Guy Podcast https://youtu.be/DPi03NJxx6c
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday May 07, 2024
Tuesday May 07, 2024
Are you stuck and unable to more on? Wondering what they are up to? Waiting for them to reach out and say they are sorry?
Try this.
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday Apr 30, 2024
Tuesday Apr 30, 2024
This week I was shown by a horse the power of grounding. I attending a healing sanctuary where they use horses to guide you to delve deeper and clear more, I was drawn automatically to this process and with the help of Wendy and Bill and Athena I was able to step more into my feminine power and clear away some the masculine energy I had use to protect me.
One moment in particular showed me the power of grounding and staying in our bodies.
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday Apr 23, 2024
Tuesday Apr 23, 2024
Confusion coming out of an emotionally abusive relationships -Word Salad | Triangulation | Gaslighting | Mindfuckery and other tactics
In this episode, I discuss the Confusion coming out of an emotionally abusive relationships - Word Salad | Triangulation | Gaslighting | Mindfuckery and other tactics.
What is happening in your body and what happens to your mind when you are threatened?
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Wednesday Apr 17, 2024
Wednesday Apr 17, 2024
In this episode, I discuss the trauma bond.
I remember it like it was yesterday, there are so many things I can’t remember but this memory is so clear.
I was sitting on the arm of my sofa holding a coffee; the October sun streaming through the large window, and then it happened; I made this huge statement “I don’t ever want anyone to go through what I have been through”.
BOOM
And there it was...
The words were out of my mouth and they couldn’t be unsaid or unheard.
A thousand horses could not drag them back.
The Seed was planted!
At this point I had no idea what I was going to go through, it was just terribly painful; and I had no idea that I was in fact at the start of my journey, not the end as I thought...
I still believed this was all my fault.
It wasn’t until months later I realised I actually didn’t want to stop people going through their own personal journey and I didn’t want them having their own cathartic Dark Night of the Soul, because this is where the magic is... This is where the healing happens.
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
Tuesday Apr 09, 2024
In this episode, I discuss grief and the layers we need to grieve.
Also How our minds have been trained to search for information to confirm you are wrong and the abuser is right.
You can get the Workbook and MP3 for Grieving the Past Present and Future Here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/shop
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Sunday Apr 07, 2024
Sunday Apr 07, 2024
in this episode I celebrate the 2nd anniversary of the podcast, talking about the raw emotions you experience.
I talk about the grief of the loss of the person I was and learning to love the new version.
Coercion including financial and sexual control.
Sexual Coercion and how the Narcissist Manipulates you - https://youtu.be/soxzsU-CQp8
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
As The MindFuckery Podcast comes to the end of year two I talk about the mind body and soul connection and how it was affected by the abuse.
And remind you that you were and still are the most powerful piece on the chess board. The abuse may have moved on, creating a new persona - what is keeping you trapped? For me it was three statements, perhaps you recognise them
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Tuesday Mar 26, 2024
Tuesday Mar 26, 2024
In this episode, I discuss what happening in the body and how our minds have been trained to search for information to confirm you are wrong and the abuser is right.
The difference between responding and reacting and why the abuser really wants you to react.
And I talk you through a dry brushing exercise to clear energetic connections.
This link for my play list for meditations - with breathing exercises and grounding techniques, chakra balancing and many others:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUK74EPoswA-f-Ory262luguBYPSgRDsy&si=Jt1c1477amv1pB0x
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
Elizabeth https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard