The MINDFUCKERY Podcast

I’m your host Elizabeth Author of Finding Lily and The A to Z of Emotional Abuse. I am here to remind you that Love should be UNCONDITIONAL Divorcing Emotionally LIFE CHANGING and that you have a DUTY OF CARE for yourself it it should be your MANTRA! Each week I will discuss some of the terms you may hear along this journey and I will help you INNER-STAND and process what is happening INSIDE YOU! I will help you DISCOVER THE BEST TOOLS | PUT IN PLACE THE BEST RITUALS as you start to take back the control over your own life and learn the tools to heal on a deeper level becoming THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.

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Episodes

Tuesday Jun 11, 2024

This week I have created a 3 in 1 podcast - as healing from these relationships is one of the most rewarding things you can do and I talk about grounding, breathing and protection that is what I have created. 
I have also saved it so that if your device allows you can forward to the one you want without searching too hard. Press FF 
02:30 Grounding
07:00 Breathing 
17:00 Guided Meditation
Meditations Playlist - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUK74EPoswA-f-Ory262luguBYPSgRDsy
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday Jun 04, 2024

Healing from these relationships is one of the most rewarding things you can do! 
In March I was an expert speaker at an online summit - my subject was
WoundTalking© - a transformative journey of self-discovery and healing.
Prior to the talk I was interviewed by Debbie Debonaire about 
Why I do what I do
My Healing Journey
Divorcing Emotionally
Inner Child and reparenting 
Ikea and the shortcut to the market place
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday May 28, 2024

Healing from these relationships is one of the most rewarding things you can do! 
Trauma responses of Fight, Flight, Fawn and Freeze 
Not recognising yourself 
Feeling numb 
Not able to respond to anyone or anything
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
 
#gabormate #petewalker #somaticexperiencing 

Tuesday May 21, 2024

Healing from these relationships is one of the most rewarding things you can do! 
No one will ever get the pain and confusion you are left with when the fairytale romance is over - that is what they see - they don't see the chaos that went on behind closed doors!
 
The pain ingrained by the cycle of abuse 
Why they can walk away and nothing 
Narcissists are parasites, using one host to get to the next
ROI - Know your value the narcissist does - https://youtu.be/GBo7LIcInk0
#dirtyjohn #johnmehan #netflix
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday May 14, 2024

This week  I am sharing a podcast I was on with John Kenny the relationship guy, following our 2nd interview Divorce, The Narcissist and Healing from Emotional abuser - listen here  John invited me back for him to experience a healing session - this is the result - I am sharing to help you inner stand and process you really can heal from this abuse and you can heal deep wounds and the BIGGEST AND I don't use a process that will re- trigger you!
 
#2 Divorce, The Narcissist and Healing from emotional abuser - https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-p3pez-153c4ef
#1 Divorce and the Narcissist | The Relationship Guy Podcast https://youtu.be/DPi03NJxx6c
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday May 07, 2024

Are you stuck and unable to more on? Wondering what they are up to? Waiting for them to reach out and say they are sorry?
 
Try this.
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday Apr 30, 2024

This week I was shown by a horse the power of grounding. I attending a healing sanctuary where they use horses to guide you to delve deeper and clear more, I was drawn automatically to this process and with the help of Wendy and Bill and Athena I was able to step more into my feminine power and clear away some the masculine energy I had use to protect me. 
One moment in particular showed me the power of grounding and staying in our bodies. 
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday Apr 23, 2024

Confusion coming out of an emotionally abusive relationships -Word Salad | Triangulation | Gaslighting | Mindfuckery and other tactics
In this episode, I discuss the Confusion coming out of an emotionally abusive relationships - Word Salad | Triangulation | Gaslighting | Mindfuckery and other tactics.
What is happening in your body and what happens to your mind when you are threatened?
 
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Wednesday Apr 17, 2024

In this episode, I discuss the trauma bond. 
I remember it like it was yesterday, there are so many things I can’t remember but this memory is so clear.
I was sitting on the arm of my sofa holding a coffee; the October sun streaming through the large window, and then it happened; I made this huge statement “I don’t ever want anyone to go through what I have been through”.
BOOM
And there it was...
The words were out of my mouth and they couldn’t be unsaid or unheard.
A thousand horses could not drag them back.
The Seed was planted!
At this point I had no idea what I was going to go through, it was just terribly painful; and I had no idea that I was in fact at the start of my journey, not the end as I thought...
I still believed this was all my fault.
It wasn’t until months later I realised I actually didn’t want to stop people going through their own personal journey and I didn’t want them having their own cathartic Dark Night of the Soul, because this is where the magic is... This is where the healing happens.
 
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

Tuesday Apr 09, 2024

In this episode, I discuss grief and the layers we need to grieve.
Also How our minds have been trained to search for information to confirm you are wrong and the abuser is right.
You can get the Workbook and MP3 for Grieving the Past Present and Future Here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/shop
 
https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard
Do you want a copy of my FREE Self-Care is vital workbook? https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/free-resources
 
Get your copy of Finding Lily here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/finding-lily
Get your copy of The A to Z of Emotional abuse here:https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/the-a-to-z-of-emotional-abuse
Get your copy of Divorce Matters here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/services/divorce-matters
 
Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emotionaldivorcewarrior/
Check out my website here: https://www.innerhealingsanctuary.co.uk/
 
GROUNDING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/xb90Cxfqeh8
BREATHING MEDITATION https://youtu.be/-8B-jWjHEt8
 
Elizabeth   https://linktr.ee/elizabethgoddard

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